You
know that sinking feeling you have when there's too much on your plate? When
you try to tackle your tasks by priority, but it feels like everything's important?
Don't get overwhelmed—it's a problem that everyone faces at some point or
another, and while it's difficult to skillfully juggle multiple priorities and
competing responsibilities, it's not impossible. Here's how.
It
just so happens that there's a career that focuses specifically on juggling
competing tasks and priorities: These people are called project managers. And
as luck would have it, I was a full time PM for many years, PMP-certified and
everything. In that time, I learned a number of helpful tricks that can help
you manage your workload at the office as well as your ever-growing list of
to-dos at home, with your family, or with your friends. Here's how you can
apply some of those techniques to your everyday life.
Even
if everything on your plate is supposed to be equally important, you still
need a way to break down which ones you spend your time on, and how you slice
up your time. The first question you have to get past is whether or not
everything really is of equal importance. Here are a couple of tips to help you
cut through the fog and get a feel for how important your responsibilities and
projects really are.
Ø Grill the boss.
At work, you have a manager. At home, you're your own boss. One of the primary
responsibilities of any manager is to help you understand what's important,
what's not, and what you should be working on. You may have a manager at the
office who does this (or needs your help doing it well), but everywhere else,
you're in charge of your own work, and no one's going to tell you that backing
up your data is more important right now than painting the house. It's easy to
give up and think "it's all important," but at work, you can lean in
and tell your boss that you really need their help. At home, sometimes you just
have to pick something from your to-do list and get started to build some
momentum.
Ø Ask around. If
you're prioritizing tasks that involve other people, like your family, friends,
and coworkers, talk to them. Find out from them when they need your
help, how much work is backed up behind the things you're working with them on,
and if they can lend a hand. If they don't need you for another week and
someone else needs you tomorrow, or if they aren't as busy as you are, you know
what to do.
Ø Work backwards.
We'll get into this a little more later, but you probably have an idea of when
each of your tasks are due—or at least when you'd like them done by—and how
much time is required to work on each item. Start with the due dates, take into
account how much effort you need to put into each one and how much input you
need from others, and work backwards to find out what you should be working on
right now (or what you should have already started, in some cases).
Ø Cover Your A**.
Finally, once you've taken some time to determine what's really important and
arranged them based on what you think you should tackle first, it's time to put
it in writing and share it with everyone involved. Set expectations with others
for when you'll get your work done for them, and set expectations with yourself
for when you'll have time to work on your own projects. This is more important
in a work setting, but involving others in your non-work to-dos can also keep
you—and others—accountable.
Get Organized
The
goal of your system, whichever you select, is to take away the need for you to
waste time deciding what to work on next, even when you have a lot on your
plate. I've found that David Allen's GTD framework
is one of the most effective methods for me, mostly because it focuses on what
you should do now and what your next actions should be, and it emphasizes
getting your to-dos out of your head and into some system that will help you
work. I've mentioned before that
I manage my to-dos in ReQall,
but there are plenty of other options, like previously mentioned Wunderlist,
or if you work on a team, Asana, a collaborative tool
we adore.
Whichever tool and productivity method you choose, dump your to-dos and projects into it as quickly as possible. Make sure it's something you'll actually return to and use frequently, and something that's easy to fit into your workflow, and you'll be successful. In the end, you want something easy to refer to, easy to enter tasks into, and that gives you a great view of all of the balls you have in the air at any time.
Behold, The Trinity: Cost, Scope, and Time
For
example, if you want to paint the spare room in time for out-of-town guests to
stay over, you can't change the size of the job (scope), but you can control
whether you buckle down and do it yourself overnight (time), or get someone
else to do it for you while you do something else (cost). Here's how you can
use these three principles to organize your everyday to-dos.
Ø Time: Work
Backwards From Your Deadlines. Time is usually the one variable most of us
can't change. Deadlines are deadlines, and often we're not the ones who set
them. This is where working backwards from due dates is crucial. Start a
spreadsheet, and mark down when each project or task on your plate needs to be
finished. Then work backwards to the present day, taking into account
everything each specific to-do that needs to be done to get from here to there,
and how long it takes to complete. When you're finished, you'll likely see a
bunch of tasks that should have started already and others that hopefully won't
start for a while if you're going to make the deadline. That list, by itself,
is a good indicator of what your priorities are, what you should be working on
right now, what you should work on next, and perhaps most importantly, what you
should get help with—especially if they're tasks that should have started a
week ago.
Ø Cost: Get Help
from Family, Friends, and Coworkers. Cost means more than just dollars. It also
means people who can help you, or services you can call to give you a hand or
take the load off. Could you finish faster if someone else worked on it for
you? What if a teammate could take part of the job off your hands and you could
pick it up later? Perhaps there's a program or application that can automate the
process for you, and it's pretty cheap. It may be worth spending money or
dragging in friends to help you finish renovating the kitchen before you run
out of vacation days, or calling someone to install your new washing machine so
you don't have to take time off to do it.
Ø Scope: Don't Be
Afraid to Make Compromises. If your to-dos have to be done by a certain time
and you can't get help, it's time to sit down with the people waiting on you
and start making some deals. Let them know what you can deliver by when,
and then go on to explain what you can give them later. This is important,
because it sends the message that you're not trying to avoid the work you have
to do, but you're trying to give them something now that they can use while you
keep working in the background to get them everything else on their wish list.
The sooner you stop thinking of your to-dos in terms of all-or-nothing, the
sooner you'll have the flexibility to say "I'll give you this tomorrow if
you give me a week to give you the rest."
Delegate, Delegate, Delegate
We've talked
about how difficult it can be
to delegate, and how to delegate
effectively in the past, but however you go about it, it's important to
remember that you need to be
assertive, not aggressive when asking for help, and you
need to make your case with all of the data you have available. By now, you
should have your priorities laid out and you have a good idea what you need.
Use that information to ask for help and prove you need it, and remember, don't
be upset if your friends, boss, or coworkers say no.
Buckle Up, It's Going to be a Bumpy Ride
Using
this method to set your own priorities and keep track of your own
responsibilities isn't just something you should do when you're starting to
feel overwhelmed. If the walls are closing in on you, yes, it's definitely time
to take a good, hard look at what's on your plate, what can come off, and what
has to give, but waiting until you're already busy and stressed out will make
it especially difficult to make the changes you need to get your head above
water. Even so, it's essential, and once you do it you'll never look back.
Hopefully, you can apply these tricks to your work, at home, and in your
day-to-day life. Once you really understand what you have to work on and how
long it takes, you'll be able to make smart decisions about whether you can
take on that big new project at work, or help your best friend plan their
bachelor party.